In Saudi Arabia, when we greet each other, we say “Salam Alaykum,” which means “peace be upon you.” It is usually followed by a handshake if it is a formal meeting, or a kiss on the cheek if it’s been a while since meeting that person — especially if they are family or a close friend. Nowadays, with COVID-19, we say Salam Alaykum followed by a wave.
Traditionally, women wear an abaya [a long robe or cloak that covers the whole body] over their everyday clothing. As for men, they can wear anything from the traditional thobe [a long-sleeved, gownlike garment] to jeans and a T-shirt. In 2019, Saudi introduced the “Public Decency Law,” which explains what does and does not count as good attire in public for ladies and gentlemen. Basically, loose-fitting clothing that covers to the elbow and below the ankle is recommended for both men and women in public.
Mostly, children are not only allowed but also welcomed! However, if you are going to a fancy restaurant, it is best to reach out in advance in case there are any restrictions on having children with you. As for the dress code, there are no specific rules for children, as long as they are dressed modestly.
In general, we are a welcoming community in Saudi. However, there are clear norms about how people socialize in Saudi homes. Most Saudi homes have a space called a majlis that is dedicated to entertaining guests. Within the majlis a Saudi host will serve their guests food, snacks, etc. However it is not normal for guests to be entertained in family living areas.
Saudis value their privacy a lot, especially females. So before taking any picture, especially if people are included, ask them first. You should also be careful taking photographs of government buildings, including police stations, and national infrastructure such as airports. Cell phone photography is generally fine, but if you’re using a full-size camera with a telephoto lens you might be asked to stop.
People usually pray in areas reserved for prayer or in mosques. To show respect around these areas, avoid doing things that could distract others, like talking loud or playing loud music. If you are not around those areas during prayer time, just act normally.